Quite sad to see friend in love issues.

Today, was reading a friend's blog and as I read her entry, I was shocked and also feeling sad for her because of the thin line between loving someone as a friend and loving someone as a lover.

It seemed like a guy mistaken her care as a friend as a lover's love and one misunderstanding lead to another and the issue got bigger and she herself feeling bound by it.

And it got me to think of a guy who I once trying to help as a friend. I might have shared this with some friends or I might not but it was a past that make me learn a lesson of differential loves.

Chatting with a guy through msn is one thing, getting pestered and declaration of love is another thing. Because of the need of love, this guy hold on to me by calling me, sms me, pleading with me and threatening me. All of it is due to my little mistake of not making the line of "just wanting to be friends and not BGR" clearly.

And reading this friend's blog, made my heart went for her as the experience was so similar yet different, at least I never met the guy in real life but she was opposite of me.

Sometime to differential loves seem hard.

This girl just want to find her true love but devils just seem hard to play trick with her by sending her guys that she know is not for her.

Girl, stay strong, be focus. When it is time, it will be what it meant to be. Signs and wonders follow those of God.

Like what people shared with me and what I shared with the girl, signs are the best things to tell whether it is from God or it isn't. The devils and God know the same things but the only different is, God know the future and what is coming, the devils only know the present and trying to stop it or bringing a wrong destiny on our way.

Don't be distracted but stay focus. If it isn't meant to be, God is going to send you someone better, more mature and love Him to the core of his heart.

And it is the same goes for everyone, including the one reading this and me too.

God never give 2nd handed goods to us, but He always reserved the best of us. It is only a matter of time and only a matter of patient.

Just like a series that Cliff once taught, True Love Wait.

Waiting is a test of patient.

Reserving is a test of self-control.

To know whether you have patient and self-control.

Just wait and reserve.

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